A Trip to the Allergist

IMG_1350I turned 34 last week. My age isn’t an issue, but my health and wellness are always on my mind. In the past couple of years, I’ve developed what seems like a pretty extreme dog allergy. That coupled with seasonal allergies that seem to last all year can be rather aggravating. Hell, I was aggravated enough without the dog allergies.

I actually made my appointment to see the allergist back in June, thinking I might be able to fit it in before dogsitting for my parents for 12 days. They couldn’t fit me in until August, though, so last week I went for my first ever appointment with an allergist. [Read more...]

They Want Me to Buy What? Understanding Car Insurance

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The idea of having your own car was probably pretty exciting until you realized you had to pay for maintenance, gas, and car insurance. While a basic gas budget is pretty easy to calculate, trying to understand car insurance policies can be confusing. So what are you actually buying?

Automobile Liability

No matter where you go, you’re going to find that the law requires you purchase automobile liability insurance. The requirement varies depending on the state or country you’re in, but it is mandated by law. If you are found responsible for causing an accident, the liability portion of the policy will pay for the damage you cause to a person or to his property. [Read more...]

F Has a New Doctor

medical symbolIt’s been a while since I’ve updated on the medical issue, but it’s been a whirlwind of a month so far.

As I noted in my last post on the subject, after the last nasty phone call from Dr. W, I started the search for a new doctor for F by calling his cardiologist to ask for a recommendation. The woman who answered the phone was pretty nice and said she’d ask the doctor when he wasn’t with patients and then call me back. She didn’t. I’d like to say I am surprised, but I’m just not. [Read more...]

From Unhappy to Angry: The Doctor Called Back (Sort Of)

medical symbolOn Monday I posted about F’s doctor not remembering she’d had a conversation with him, following up that lack of memory with a nasty phone call to our home in which she left a message with some remarks about him not calling her back. I had called the doctor’s office and didn’t feel they’d do anything.

Well, they did. They managed to uncover another couple of layers of stupidity.

Around 4:30pm I received a phone call on my cell from one of the techs in the office. I didn’t recognize her voice when she said her name. She started by telling me that Dr. W wasn’t in but that Dr. D had reviewed F’s file. Dr. D said that they should wait until Dr. W came back from vacation to talk about the MRI results b/c she’s the one that saw him.

I very calmly explained to the person who called that they had apparently misunderstood the reason for my call. I very clearly mapped it out, again. Dr. W called on x date, we called back on y date, and a conversation was already had about the MRI results. Dr. W apparently did not note the call from y date and left F a nasty message about not calling her back. Could she understand why I was a bit upset? She said she’d talk to the office manager. [Read more...]

The Doctor Messed Up and I’m Not Pleased

medical symbolF has told me multiple times that I should write about how we navigate the medical system. Usually we’re in the car, on the way to an appointment, and I’ll go down the list of things I had to do to make said appointment happen. This is in addition to all we had to go through to make sure he had any coverage at all. It’s amazing how different two people’s experiences with the healthcare exchange can be.

By the way, this is in no way a bash on the Affordable Care Act, without which F would still likely be uninsured. It’s a bash on the red-tape system that has always existed and has now gotten worse.

That said, I’m not worried about that stuff today. I’ll come back to it. Today I’m upset at F’s doctor. He’s seen her all of one time and has a follow-up scheduled for the end of June. [Read more...]

The Shock, The Horror: Saving on Car Insurance in Your 20′s

girl in carIt was only a handful of years ago that I myself was in my 20′s. As a teen, my first couple of cars were old vehicles that needed only the bare minimum in terms of insurance – liability and nothing more. After my second car was stolen, though (in my early 20′s), I started exploring my options for newer vehicles.

And boy was I surprised. Full coverage car insurance, with liability, comprehensive, and collision coverage was a lot of money. I worked for a car insurance company at the time, too, so I knew how to leverage discounts. I still experienced significant sticker-shock.

The major contributing factor was my age – early 20′s.  [Read more...]

L is for Luck and Love

LI’m a bit achy today. I worked out hard last week and managed to mess up a muscle in my shoulder and neck area. It’s not a huge deal. I know how to treat it. It does hurt a bit, and I may have over-done some of the treatment (love that massage chair). Anyway, I was lying in bed a little longer than necessary this morning and heard a song playing. That made me want to look it up, which led me to finding a couple of other songs I wanted to hear.

I guess good music is a great way to start a Monday morning, so I thought I’d share a couple of those “L” themed songs with you to get you moving. Hope you enjoy them as much as I did!  [Read more...]

Product Review: Tone Moisturizing Body Wash (Part 2)

toneDisclaimer: I’m a member of the BzzAgent program and received a free sample of Tone’s moisturizing body wash and some coupons as part of the campaign. The thoughts and opinions expressed in this post are my honest opinion of the product. I was not required to write this review, nor was I compensated for writing it.

A couple of weeks ago I wrote the first part of my Tone Moisturizing Body Wash review, after having used the new Pink Peony and Rose Oil scent from the complete line. When I last left you, I was happy with the results I was getting from using the new scent but I wanted to try another one. On my next trip to WalMart, I picked up a bottle of the Soothing Oatmeal with Shea Butter. The only thing I did wrong was in forgetting to take a coupon for me. That’s OK, though – more for my friends to try. [Read more...]

Joy and Kindness

JThis evening I’m writing a make-up post for the ones I missed on Friday and Saturday. Friday I was overwhelmed with work and preparation for a friend’s wedding and Saturday I was just plain exhausted after work. Looking back, I should have planned those posts in advance but I’ll know better going forward.

Joy and kindness are my words for the letters J and K.

 

KI saw much of both of these things this weekend. There was so much joy on my friend’s face as she walked down the aisle on Friday; and again later at her reception, which was full of close friends and family members. Her husband was nice, her daughter was full of energy, and the people around me were all very kind and easy to talk to.

The funny part being that I knew a lot of them, but hadn’t seen them in so many years they didn’t recognize me. [Read more...]

I’m Feeling Inspired

II’ve been working hard over the past two months. Last time I saw my doctor we discussed a number of different issues ranging from anxiety to my blood pressure and my weight.

Since my last visit,  two months ago, I’ve dropped 12 pounds. My blood pressure is hovering at an almost-too-high place but it’s static (the bottom number is the issue). I’ve self-identified some of the triggers for my anxiety and I’ve taken on some different mindful/self-care activities.  [Read more...]